While not outsmarting your older man is important, you also don’t want to play dumb either. If an older man, a potential sugar daddy, approaches you, talk as you normally would. While you might think that acting like a giggly schoolgirl is cute and charming, sometimes you just come across as being immature and childish. You may end up scaring him away if he thinks you’re uninteresting or vapid. Just be yourself and if he’s interested, you won’t have to worry about putting on an act every time you’re around him.
Last but not least, looks are obviously a huge part of finding the right sugar daddy relationship—and by looks, I mean yours. While you don’t need to look like a supermodel to land a sugar daddy, older men tend to have a little more appreciation for a woman who takes care of herself. If you’re well manicured and pedicured when you meet your potential suitor, then maintain that—on his tab, of course. Every relationship is different, but making drastic changes while in a relationship can lead to a breakup. How would you feel if you thought you were getting a suave gentleman, but ended up with a dorky slob?
It’s your body and you are free to make any changes that you would like to, but remember that if you’re dating an older man, his mindset may be different from younger guys—he may not appreciate a tattoo or piercing as much as you think he might. If you’re considering getting inked or pierced, talk to him first to see how he feels about it.
It goes the other way too, though. Plastic surgery gifts are a popular trend for sugar daddies—I know a lot of girls that look for sugar daddies to help finance breast enhancements, or other cosmetic procedures. But never let a man force you into something you don’t want to do. If your sugar daddy offers up surgery, and it’s something you’re interested in, let him know. But if you’re not interested, let him know that too.
Ultimately, you’re the one that makes the final decision about getting into a relationship with an older man. If you’re considering a sugar daddy, remember this: reeling them in is only half the battle. If you know how to keep them happy, they’ll surely return the favor.