4 Ways to Land a Rich, Sexy Older Man…And Keep Him: Part 2

age_gap_dating_july14_13While not out­smart­ing your older man is impor­tant, you also don’t want to play dumb either. If an older man, a poten­tial sugar daddy, approaches you, talk as you nor­mally would. While you might think that act­ing like a gig­gly school­girl is cute and charm­ing, some­times you just come across as being imma­ture and child­ish. You may end up scar­ing him away if he thinks you’re unin­ter­est­ing or vapid. Just be your­self and if he’s inter­ested, you won’t have to worry about putting on an act every time you’re around him.

Last but not least, looks are obvi­ously a huge part of find­ing the right sugar daddy relationship—and by looks, I mean yours. While you don’t need to look like a super­model to land a sugar daddy, older men tend to have a lit­tle more appre­ci­a­tion for a woman who takes care of her­self. If you’re well man­i­cured and pedi­cured when you meet your poten­tial suitor, then main­tain that—on his tab, of course. Every rela­tion­ship is dif­fer­ent, but mak­ing dras­tic changes while in a rela­tion­ship can lead to a breakup. How would you feel if you thought you were get­ting a suave gen­tle­man, but ended up with a dorky slob?

It’s your body and you are free to make any changes that you would like to, but remem­ber that if you’re dat­ing an older man, his mind­set may be dif­fer­ent from younger guys—he may not appre­ci­ate a tat­too or pierc­ing as much as you think he might. If you’re con­sid­er­ing get­ting inked or pierced, talk to him first to see how he feels about it.

It goes the other way too, though. Plas­tic surgery gifts are a pop­u­lar trend for sugar daddies—I know a lot of girls that look for sugar dad­dies to help finance breast enhance­ments, or other cos­metic pro­ce­dures. But never let a man force you into some­thing you don’t want to do. If your sugar daddy offers up surgery, and it’s some­thing you’re inter­ested in, let him know. But if you’re not inter­ested, let him know that too.

Ulti­mately, you’re the one that makes the final deci­sion about get­ting into a rela­tion­ship with an older man. If you’re con­sid­er­ing a sugar daddy, remem­ber this: reel­ing them in is only half the bat­tle. If you know how to keep them happy, they’ll surely return the favor.