5 Reasons a Sugar Baby Should Start Looking for a New Sugar Daddy: Part 1

What would make you leave your sugar daddy? This is a ques­tion my friend recently asked me when she found out about my older lover. Obvi­ously, she was aware of the trips, the house, and the other gifts that my older man has given me. But she wanted to know more about some of the things that could go wrong in a May-December rela­tion­ship. I decided to talk this over with another friend of mine, whom I had met at a gala where there were a lot of younger women who were dat­ing older men from my firm. Here are some of our deal break­ers when dat­ing a sugar daddy:

Infi­delity. This one is obvi­ous. If you are in a rela­tion­ship with an older man or a sugar daddy, the last thing you want is for him to be sneak­ing around on you with other women. If you’re mutu­ally exclu­sive with one another, for him to be with another woman would be a major turnoff, not to men­tion a seri­ous deal breaker, for both my friend and I. If your sugar daddy is up-front with you about there pos­si­bly being other women, that is some­thing that you can decide on at the begin­ning of your rela­tion­ship. My friend said that, at one time, she did have a sugar daddy that had mul­ti­ple girl­friends, and she was OK with that. I, on the other hand, would not be. Also, it goes both ways. My lover expects me to be with no one else, and I’m happy with that. I’m also not shop­ping around for another sugar daddy, which brings me to deal breaker num­ber two.

Shop­ping around or look­ing for bet­ter options. You should do this before you decide on a sugar daddy rela­tion­ship. If you’re hap­pily involved with a rich, older man, don’t leave him as soon as a richer sugar daddy comes around. Some girls will main­tain an online pro­file on sugar daddy dat­ing sites, wait­ing to strike the new suitor with the big­ger pock­et­book. A lot of older gen­tle­men who are sugar dad­dies are also look­ing for com­pan­ion­ship, not just a tro­phy girl. If they see you sniff­ing around for more money else­where, that’s def­i­nitely a deal breaker for them, as it would be for a sugar baby whose older man was out scop­ing for other younger women while already in a rela­tion­ship. Some men stay on these sites look­ing for other sugar babies, which is some­thing that they should tell you up-front, as I men­tioned in the pre­vi­ous post. Also, some older men seem to only want to stick with one lady for a short amount of time. Hon­esty is very impor­tant in these kinds of rela­tion­ships, and expec­ta­tions should be shared up front.

There are a few other things that we need to dis­cuss with regards to what it takes to keep a sugar daddy around…