What would make you leave your sugar daddy? This is a question my friend recently asked me when she found out about my older lover. Obviously, she was aware of the trips, the house, and the other gifts that my older man has given me. But she wanted to know more about some of the things that could go wrong in a May-December relationship. I decided to talk this over with another friend of mine, whom I had met at a gala where there were a lot of younger women who were dating older men from my firm. Here are some of our deal breakers when dating a sugar daddy:
Infidelity. This one is obvious. If you are in a relationship with an older man or a sugar daddy, the last thing you want is for him to be sneaking around on you with other women. If you’re mutually exclusive with one another, for him to be with another woman would be a major turnoff, not to mention a serious deal breaker, for both my friend and I. If your sugar daddy is up-front with you about there possibly being other women, that is something that you can decide on at the beginning of your relationship. My friend said that, at one time, she did have a sugar daddy that had multiple girlfriends, and she was OK with that. I, on the other hand, would not be. Also, it goes both ways. My lover expects me to be with no one else, and I’m happy with that. I’m also not shopping around for another sugar daddy, which brings me to deal breaker number two.
Shopping around or looking for better options. You should do this before you decide on a sugar daddy relationship. If you’re happily involved with a rich, older man, don’t leave him as soon as a richer sugar daddy comes around. Some girls will maintain an online profile on sugar daddy dating sites, waiting to strike the new suitor with the bigger pocketbook. A lot of older gentlemen who are sugar daddies are also looking for companionship, not just a trophy girl. If they see you sniffing around for more money elsewhere, that’s definitely a deal breaker for them, as it would be for a sugar baby whose older man was out scoping for other younger women while already in a relationship. Some men stay on these sites looking for other sugar babies, which is something that they should tell you up-front, as I mentioned in the previous post. Also, some older men seem to only want to stick with one lady for a short amount of time. Honesty is very important in these kinds of relationships, and expectations should be shared up front.
There are a few other things that we need to discuss with regards to what it takes to keep a sugar daddy around…