5 Reasons a Sugar Baby Should Start Looking for a New Sugar Daddy: Part 2

dating a sugar daddyThe money runs out. While this seems like a rude, gold dig­ging thing to do, it’s a real­is­tic sit­u­a­tion. Some­times things hap­pen. A sugar daddy gets a new lady and stops being so gen­er­ous with you because, well, he’s spend­ing it else­where. If you’ve become accus­tomed to receiv­ing cer­tain ben­e­fits and gifts from your lover, but they start to dwin­dle, it could mean that he has another sugar baby in the pic­ture. Watch for less calls and/or texts too. But it could also be an issue with his busi­ness or per­sonal life. At one point, my sugar daddy’s firm lost a lot of money on a big case, and he cut back on some of his spend­ing on friv­o­lous vaca­tions and gifts. Most sugar dad­dies will let you know if some­thing major hap­pens and they can’t keep up their end of the arrangement—or at least they should.

Unre­al­is­tic expec­ta­tions. Some­times sugar dad­dies and older men in gen­eral are just look­ing for arm candy. They want a girl to hang out with, to have fun with, and to spoil and spend money on. But other times, they are actu­ally look­ing for more than just a one night stand or a hot girl to party with. Some guys are legit­i­mately look­ing for a long-term rela­tion­ship. At first, my lover was very up-front with let­ting me know that he would help with my bills and we would have fun, but it wasn’t meant to go any­where. I didn’t expect him to spend every wak­ing hour with me or to leave his wife for me. Some women get attached way too fast and want things to go fur­ther with their sugar daddy. This can cause all kinds of prob­lems, espe­cially if your man is mar­ried. It can go the other way too—you might just be look­ing for some­thing casual, but your sugar daddy is expect­ing a lot more from you out of the rela­tion­ship. This is obvi­ously a huge deal breaker.

Domes­tic issues. Be on your guard when you meet some­one new, espe­cially when it comes to dat­ing web sites. If you think you’ve hooked a poten­tial sugar daddy, it goes with­out say­ing to always be care­ful. Never let your part­ner, sugar daddy or oth­er­wise, get pos­ses­sive or become con­trol­ling, and never let any­one put their hands on your “assets” with­out your per­mis­sion. My girl­friend had one sugar daddy who treated her like an object. He became very con­trol­ling and jeal­ous of her when­ever they were out in pub­lic together. This is a huge deal breaker and can also be scary.

Always remain hon­est, up-front, and com­fort­able being your­self around poten­tial suit­ors. This really helps to keep the rela­tion­ship going, and if you run into a deal breaker, decide if the rela­tion­ship is worth your while or not. If it’s not worth it, then move on—there’s plenty more where he came from.

  • Melissa Lip­nutz

    Pros­ti­tute much?

  • Cruzer

    When the sex is not hot anymore.