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It’s Been 2 Years and the Sex Isn’t What It Used to Be—What Happens Now? (ANSWER!)

Mick Jagger Honoring L’Wren Scott

QUESTION: Me and my older man (he’s 18 years older) have been together for just over two years now. Our May-December rela­tion­ship is great and I’m very happy with him, but our sex life just isn’t as good as it used to be. What’s hap­pen­ing? Is our rela­tion­ship in trou­ble? CHELSEA SAYS: I’m guess­ing what you’re really try­ing to say is you’re not hav­ing as much sex as you used to? This […]

Advice For Married Women Who Are Cheating on Their Husband with a Rich, Older Man

QUESTION: I’m dat­ing an older man who is always so demand­ing. He wants me around him every minute of the day, which was not our ini­tial arrange­ment, because I’m a mar­ried woman. Accord­ing to him, he can’t get enough of me. I really love him and I don’t want to lose him to another girl. On the other hand, I wouldn’t want to tam­per with my fam­ily. What can I do in […]

How to Bring Up Money (Or Not) In Your Age Gap Relationship

QUESTION: I just started going on age gap dat­ing web sites and I don’t know how to answer the ques­tion about what my finan­cial expec­ta­tions are. Can you help me out? CHELSEA SAYS: This is always such an awk­ward ques­tion on age gap dat­ing sites, because it assumes that you’re in it just for the finan­cial gain. While that might be true for some women, it isn’t nec­es­sar­ily the case for all May-December […]

HELP! We’re Four Months Into Our Age Gap Relationship and He’s Too Getting Clingy. What Do I Do?

QUESTION: I’ve been dat­ing an older guy now for about four months and he’s really great. I had never been in an age gap rela­tion­ship before, but we met through a mutual friend and hit it off right away. He takes really good care of me and I’m very happy with him. But I’m start­ing to notice that he’s get­ting really clingy. He always tries to deter me from going out with […]