What It’s Really Like

What It’s Really Like Between the Sheets with a Rich, Older Man: Part 2

After I decided to break up with my older lover, Patrick, over the phone, he imme­di­ately called one of my best girl­friends for sym­pa­thy. “Not a big deal,” you say? It wouldn’t have been such a big deal, except he then told her in very vivid terms how much he liked my body and why. And I’m not talk­ing just breasts either—he went into intri­cate detail about exactly which parts of my […]

What It’s Really Like Between the Sheets with a Rich, Older Man: Part 1

Now would be the best time to be hon­est about the role that sex plays in my rela­tion­ship with an older man, Patrick. Its fre­quency, impor­tance, and power over how we grew as a cou­ple had a lot to do with him, at least in the begin­ning. Patrick was a man who was obsessed with being with me and, because I had never been in that kind of a rela­tion­ship before, I […]