How Important Is Good Sex In Your May-December Relationship?

When you’re dat­ing a sugar daddy, sex is always a hot topic. Every­one wants to know what the sex is like for a younger woman who’s inti­mate with a much older man, but what about his sat­is­fac­tion in the bed­room? A recent sur­vey out of the U.K. revealed that for a lot of men, sex­ual sat­is­fac­tion is a pri­or­ity in the rela­tion­ship. One in six men admit­ted that they would end the rela­tion­ship if sex with their part­ner wasn’t sat­is­fy­ing enough. Fur­ther­more, a quar­ter of the men sur­veyed believe that sex that ends in an orgasm is more impor­tant for rela­tion­ships than being in love with their partner.

The even scarier part? Only 17% of the men said that they were “very happy” with the sex in their rela­tion­ship, which is not bad com­pared to the mere 6% of women who felt the same way. The biggest rea­son cited for why sex didn’t end in a sat­is­fy­ing orgasm was tired­ness and exhaustion.

If you’re wor­ried that sex with your sugar daddy isn’t as hot as it could be, here are some ways to try and heat things up: almost half of the females sur­veyed said that more fore­play before sex helped with a bet­ter fin­ish, nearly 40% of women said that oral sex did the trick, and 35% of women said that sex toys made a big dif­fer­ence. Accord­ing to the sur­vey, the same things work when it comes to pleas­ing your man. With a lit­tle effort, there’s no rea­son you both can’t fin­ish with a bang every time the bed­room door closes.

What do you think: Would you leave your older man if the sex in your rela­tion­ship was less than satisfactory?


Hsu, C., “Orgasms Come Before Love in Rela­tion­ships, Sur­vey,” Counsel&Heal web site;, last accessed August 5, 2013.

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About Isabella

I was never patriotic, so when Independence Day came, the last thing on my mind was to go out and celebrate. I was bored and I was lonely, and though they weren’t my normal crowd, thesse girls were friends and family members who I grew up with. But Diana had her man, Marsha had hers, and my cousin Lisa had her own. I was the only one who was single and my taste was just too high; the kind of men they dated did not appeal to me. I wanted the executive, the entrepreneur. I was 22 and unhappy about my life. I yearned to be in a relationship; I felt I had so much to give a man, and yet I was single. My friends and I waited for cab and I was still second-guessing whether or not I really wanted to go out. While we were waiting, an older looking gentleman driving a blue pick-up truck drove up to us. As he slowed, he said, “Don’t move. I’m coming right back!” He drove off, leaving a trail of his cologne, as he sped away to drop off the construction workers sitting in the back of the truck. Literally moments later, he came back, stopped in front of us, asked us where we were going, and told us to get in. It turns out his name was Keith. After Keith dropped us off, I realized I didn’t want to stay and asked him to take me back to where he picked us up from. He turned, looked at me, and said, “You were the reason why I picked you all up. I wanted to get to know you. So, I’m happy you decided to leave with me.”