How to Let a Wealthy Mature Man Know You Want Him without Ever Saying a Word

How to Let a Wealthy Mature Man Know You Want Him without Ever Saying a Word

Won­der­ing what to wear on your first date with a sugar daddy? Well, this might help make your deci­sion a lit­tle easier—it has been sci­en­tif­i­cally proven that a lady in red is regarded as being more attrac­tive, in more ways than one.

In a recent study by psy­chol­o­gists from China, male par­tic­i­pants were asked to look at pho­tos of women wear­ing red, white, or blue and then rate how attrac­tive they were. The women in red were found to not only be the most attrac­tive, but also the warmest and most com­pe­tent. So if you really want to boost your sex appeal in sugar daddy dat­ing, trade the lit­tle black dress in for a red number.

When it comes to sugar daddy dat­ing, it’s always use­ful to know what kind of mes­sages you’re unknow­ingly send­ing, such as through your wardrobe choices. Pre­vi­ous research has sup­ported the the­ory that a sugar daddy is more likely to find a woman in red to be more sex­u­ally recep­tive, but the color seems to have a sim­i­lar effect on other women, too.

In another recent study out of the Uni­ver­sity of Rochester, female par­tic­i­pants saw a pic­ture of a “mod­er­ately attrac­tive woman in her late 20s” wear­ing the same dress in either red or white and then had to rate how much she’d be inter­ested in sex, based only on the image. In a sec­ond exper­i­ment, par­tic­i­pants saw a woman wear­ing either a red or green shirt.

In both cases, the women in red were rated as more sex­u­ally recep­tive. As a result, these women were also regarded as being more sex­u­ally threat­en­ing to other females, as well as more likely to cheat. So while red might work in your favor in sugar daddy dat­ing, don’t be sur­prised if other women aren’t jump­ing to be your best friend.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that all women wear­ing red are send­ing sex­ual sig­nals. But if you are try­ing to show a poten­tial sugar daddy that you really are inter­ested, a red dress is def­i­nitely a good place to start.

What do you think: Would you wear more red if you know that it could help you attract a poten­tial sugar daddy, or do you think color doesn’t matter?


Grif­fiths, S., “The best way to attract a man? Wear RED: Colour enhances a woman’s sex appeal and makes her more approach­able,” Daily Mail web site, August 22, 2014;

Stephen, B., “Study: Women View Other Women Wear­ing Red as a Sex­ual Threat,” TIME web site, July 13, 2014;

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About Vivian

I am 26 and my husband 45. At first, our friendship existed mostly online. I was actually helping my now husband with his dating profile when it dawned on me that he was exactly what I was looking for in a perfect life partner. So, I asked him out and we have been together ever since. We now have two daughters together and everyone that knows us will tell you that they simply can’t imagine us apart, and neither can we. I’m no stranger to May-December relationships—my father was 71 and my mother was 33 when I was born. I have never dated a guy my own age. Anything less than 10 years older than me just seems wrong, and frankly, it doesn’t even turn me on in the slightest bit to think about it. It’s actually a turn-off. After going through relationships with a few rich older men, I finally settled down with my husband. I’m sure there were people waging bets on how quickly our marriage would fall apart, but we’re determined to prove them all wrong.