My Husband’s Shocking Reaction to the Idea of Me Being with Another Man

Shocked girl

Our first din­ner date with Bill and Paulette went great—nothing too excit­ing, but still a rush. This could very well be the first cou­ple that my older hus­band, Kee­gan, and I try swing­ing with for the first time. We made plans to see them again next week before part­ing ways.

After we arrived home and sent the babysit­ter home, we had some of the steami­est sex we’ve had in a long time. The idea of me being with another man excited Kee­gan more than it did me, due to my own reser­va­tions. It was a sur­real feel­ing, some­thing I had never expe­ri­enced before.

After­wards, we were lying in bed and Kee­gan told me that he had another busi­ness trip com­ing up. He would be gone for about two weeks, but he wanted me to do some research on cuck­oldry (the idea of me being with another man) and the three­some sce­nar­ios to make sure I knew what I would be get­ting myself into. Sur­pris­ingly, one of Keegan’s biggest fan­tasies was to watch me with another man.

I had never heard of cuck­oldry before, but obvi­ously knew about three­some sce­nar­ios. In fact, Paulette and I had dis­cussed it at din­ner and she was open to the idea. Despite being 25 years my senior, Paulette looked really good. She wasn’t threat­ened by my age either, which was reassuring—or so I thought, but more on that later.

I know that this lifestyle that Kee­gan and I were seek­ing may seem bizarre to vanilla cou­ples, but what about our rela­tion­ship wasn’t bizarre? I’ve always been bisex­ual and this way, we both get what we want. Strangely enough, the only prob­lem was our age difference.

Since pub­lish­ing our pro­file on a swingers’ dat­ing site, we received a ton of mes­sages. Most were pos­i­tive and showed a lot of poten­tial.  That being said, there were also sev­eral hate­ful mes­sages from some of the women; they were typ­i­cally older, mar­ried women whose part­ner was inter­ested in swing­ing and they saw it as the only way to save their mar­riage. Oth­ers saw me as a threat, other women couldn’t find them­selves attracted to a younger woman, and some just weren’t attracted to Keegan.

We had got­ten a wide array of responses, but what we were look­ing for specif­i­cally was a sim­i­lar cou­ple who were inter­ested in the same arrange­ment we were. We wanted to find just one cou­ple to pro­tect our identity.

The site we were using has a chat and video chat fea­ture, which I found out one day when a mes­sage popped up from a mem­ber named nsabull_4u. “Hi! You have one very sexy Mrs,” he wrote in the chat box. Before respond­ing, I looked up his pro­file to see that he was a very attrac­tive man who lived very close by.

Thank you, I try,” I finally responded.

Do you play alone at all?” he typed.

Not at this time, but we have dis­cussed it as a pos­si­bil­ity for the future.”

What about video chat­ting. Are you allowed to video chat? Have you ever had some­one watch you two remotely?” he asked

Video chat is fine. No, we haven’t tried that, but it cer­tainly sounds fun! How about I talk to my hus­band and see if he is inter­ested in pos­si­bly enter­tain­ing this idea. Thank you for your interest…it’s very flattering!”

Any­time! I’ve added you to my favorite list.I don’t mind wait­ing, so when­ever you’re ready, you let me know.”

I sud­denly had a pit in my stom­ach. Was I really going to go through with this?

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About Vivian

I am 26 and my husband 45. At first, our friendship existed mostly online. I was actually helping my now husband with his dating profile when it dawned on me that he was exactly what I was looking for in a perfect life partner. So, I asked him out and we have been together ever since. We now have two daughters together and everyone that knows us will tell you that they simply can’t imagine us apart, and neither can we. I’m no stranger to May-December relationships—my father was 71 and my mother was 33 when I was born. I have never dated a guy my own age. Anything less than 10 years older than me just seems wrong, and frankly, it doesn’t even turn me on in the slightest bit to think about it. It’s actually a turn-off. After going through relationships with a few rich older men, I finally settled down with my husband. I’m sure there were people waging bets on how quickly our marriage would fall apart, but we’re determined to prove them all wrong.