QUESTION: Valentine’s Day is just a couple days away and I still haven’t figured out a gift for my sugar daddy yet. Do you have any ideas or suggestions that you can pass along for me? Help!
CHELSEA SAYS: I personally think store-bought gifts are a little overrated for Valentine’s Day, especially when it comes to you giving your sugar daddy a gift. After all, it’s just kind of understood that he’s the one that’s supposed to be spoiling you with expensive gifts, not the other way around.
For Valentine’s Day, I’ve always felt that gifts with a personal touch are really the way to go. And the best thing about giving your sugar daddy a personalized gift is that you can make it as romantic or as naughty as you want—the idea is to show your sugar daddy that you care about him and that you’re thinking of him. The more thought you put into the gift, the better.
For example, instead of going out for dinner, stay in and prepare your sugar daddy’s favorite meal, complete with all the fixings. It shows that you know what he likes and that you’re willing to invest the time and effort into a gift that he’ll really appreciate. After dessert, you can treat him to a relaxing massage. Again, you can make it as romantic or sexy as you’d like.
Realistically speaking, your sugar daddy is expecting to get lucky on Valentine’s Day. So make it a little extra special by changing things up and getting creative, like an x-rated scavenger hunt. Leave a trail of sexy clues that will ultimately lead him to the final destination: you, in your newest piece of lingerie, waiting for him with open arms. Another idea is to ask your sugar daddy for five of his raciest sex fantasies. Write each one on a small piece of paper, fold each one up, and throw them all in a hat. On the day of, have him pick one of the papers out of the hat, and as a gift to him, you’ll help him make that sex fantasy come true.
These are just a couple suggestions—sources of inspiration, if you will—for gift ideas. The point I’m trying to make is that it should be something personal and thoughtful. He’s obviously got money, so if there’s something he’s eyeing in a store, there’s a good chance he’s already got it for himself. Your sugar daddy is with you because you’re what he wants. So, when it comes to gift-giving, why not give him what he really wants?
TRENT SAYS: If there was ever one holiday to personify the sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship, it has to be Valentine’s Day! It’s all about showing each other how much you love being with each other. A pretty box of chocolates or flowers is for novices. I think the sugar baby Valentine’s Day is all about skin-on-skin contact. So, be a little creative and get a little naughty.
Since it’s just a couple days before Valentine’s Day and you’re short on time, I’m going to suggest something that I was treated to on one particular Valentine’s Day by my sugar baby. You can obviously make yours more personal, but it’s a decent springboard.
On a recent Valentine’s Day, my sugar baby told me to wait in the living room on the couch while she got something ready in the bedroom. She came out and presented me with two boxes and told me to pick one, which I dutifully did. She then went back into the bedroom.
A few minutes later, she said she was ready and I could enter. I walked in to find the bedroom dimly lit by candles. She was standing next to the bed in a stunning new piece of lingerie. She kissed me and pulled the comforter back on the bed and exposed a sex game she had made on the fitted sheet. She had drawn a large game board, five squares across and five down. Each square had a different sex act written on it, everything from just kissing to touching, watching, and using whipped cream. There were even a few strategically placed “sugar daddy’s choice” squares and a couple of “go back 4 spaces” squares. After all, you don’t want the game to end too quickly.
She had filled a bag with scraps of paper with the numbers one to three written on them. I would pull one out and that’s how many spaces I got to move. When I landed on the square, we did the act. She also had a timer, so each juicy interaction lasted just 90 seconds.
It took more than an hour for us to make our way to the last square on the board. Needless to say, the final square is open-ended, and can last for as long as you like. Best game ever; best Valentine’s Day ever.