What Your Rich, Older Man Really Wants From You

A lot of peo­ple are curi­ous about the impor­tance of sex­ual attrac­tion between a sugar daddy and his sugar baby. If he’s got the money, does the level of sex­ual attrac­tion even mat­ter for a sugar baby? Like­wise, would an older man still main­tain a rela­tion­ship with a sugar baby just on the basis of how sex­u­ally drawn to her he is?

Accord­ing to one sur­vey con­ducted by a sugar daddy match­mak­ing web site, men place much more value on sex­ual attrac­tion in a sugar daddy rela­tion­ship than women do. Of the 3,000 men and women sur­veyed, 91% of men admit­ted that sex­ual attrac­tion was either “very impor­tant” or “the most impor­tant part” of their May-December rela­tion­ship, com­pared to 51% of women who said the same. On the other end of the spec­trum, only four of the sugar dad­dies said sex­ual attrac­tion was “not impor­tant at all,” ver­sus 107 women.

These num­bers offer some valu­able insight into the mind of a sugar daddy, which is use­ful if you’re on the look­out for one. If you’re a younger woman look­ing to reel in a rich older man, you may want to start pay­ing a lit­tle more atten­tion to the vibe you’re giv­ing off when you’re out min­gling. Don’t be afraid to show a lit­tle extra cleav­age, or flash a seduc­tive smile the next time you catch the atten­tion of a poten­tial sugar daddy—if you can reel him in with your sex­ual prowess, there’s a bet­ter chance he’ll stick around for a relationship.


“New Online Dat­ing Sur­vey Shows Women More Erot­i­cally Adven­tur­ous Than Men,” SugarDaddyForMe.com web site; http://goo.gl/Yi4zt, last accessed July 17, 2013.

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About Francine K

I first met Alfred when I was 38 and he was 63, on an Internet chat site. I really didn't think this was a datable person, but a wonderful friendship developed. We became chat buddies for a while and connected so well on so many levels, we decided to meet in person. We live 100 miles apart, but that has never gotten in the way of us spending time together. A passionate relationship soon grew, and oh what an amazing lover. I had some reservations about getting too involved: our age difference is 25 years, and we are in different phases in our lives; in fact he has a daughter who is older than I am. I have 2 teenage sons, a career, was building my first home, and he’s retired, owns his home, lives alone, takes a nap during the day, and enjoys a slow-paced lifestyle. I am still ambitious and will soon have the empty nest to go start my own life, as my sons are nearly independent. There is no way I want to sit down and have a retired lifestyle yet. We’ve shared a beautiful, passionate friendship for many years together. We’ve never really figured out how to plan a future together, though.